What is your Parenting Style?

Place a check besides each statement that applies to your parenting style:   I try to reason with my children when I give out consequences,  but they use that as an opportunity for endless arguing - and often win. My children cannot readily answer this question: "What are the  rules in this house about clothes left on the floor?" I often feel powerless with my kids. I have to admit I'm uncomfortable when my child is unhappy because he's been deprived of something. After all, I work hard so he can have the things he wants and needs. I usually can't follow through with a consequence if it makes my child cry. Sometimes I blow up after a problem has gone on too long and give out a punishment that's too harsh. Then I let my children off the restriction before the time is up. My child has such a temper that many times I'll let things slide rather than risk her blowing up at me, especially when we are out in public. My children don't have a lot of responsibilites around the house. I believe that childhood should be fun and carefree. I try my best to gratify my child's every need. I don't want her growing up thinking I don't love her.  I want to be my child's best friend. I'd rather work things out like friends than act like some  kind of boss. Now, add up the number of checks and click the submit button for your score. We wishe to thank James Windell, award winning author, psychotherapist and columnist for allowing us to reproduce this quiz. Mr. Windell's latest book is "6 Steps to an Emotionally Intelligent Teenager."(John Wiley and Sons) He is also the author of "8 Weeks to a Well-Behaved Child." (Macmillan). Both books are available at all major bookstores and are available on-line with Amazon.com, Borders Books, and Barnes & Noble.

As a reminder, this information should not be relied on as medical advice and is not intended to replace the advice of your child’s pediatrician. Please read our full disclaimer.